Many people have karmic relationships which have been thought in the past to be hard and unbearable. But today, people are being more mature in their relationships and so they are learning to understand karma more and learn how to handle it.
Signs of a Karmic Relationship
A karmic relationship can be a tie to your life. This can be someone that you have been with in your past or someone that you are tied to because you need to learn a life lesson. Here are some signs you are in a karmic relationship:
Problems
Have you met someone that you feel that you are so crazy about that you want to spend all of your time with them? Then, you begin to fall in love and believe that the universe sent you the perfect match? This person might seem like you have known them forever and your relationship might start out very strong.
When time goes on though, you might learn that they might not be the perfect person for you. You find that you have a hard time talking to them or they start to treat you like you do not exist, or they are not interested in you.
There can be patterns that you begin to see, and these patterns can show up just in a few days or weeks after you start dating. If this happens, chances are you are just continuing your past relationship with this person and things will fall apart fast.
Fighting
You might find that you are not able to get along with this person. You find that they are driving you crazy and everything you talk about is a fight. You have to find a way to fix these problems or this relationship will never go away, and you will never learn your lesson.
Sexual Attraction
Make-up sex might be the only words in your vocabulary. This happens because a karmic relationship is not about love, but it is about learning your lesson. You might find that you fight a lot but that you spend more time having sex so that you can move on and make up.
Abuse
Some karmic relationships can be abusive both physically and emotionally. They can involve violence where sometimes the abuse is hidden.
Hidden abuse is damaging just like physical abuse and you have to talk to your partner or find someone that can help you. If you are in this kind of relationship, you need to leave them no matter how much you think you love them.
Controlling
If your relationship is not equal, then someone is in control. No one person should be in control in a relationship and if you find this to be happening, chances are that you are in an unhealthy relationship.
Do not let your partner walk all over you. Karma is there to teach you a lesson and once you learn that you do not have to be controlled by someone, you should find out what you can do to be equal or move forward in a new relationship.
Games
Games happen often in karmic relationships and this can be hard. If you have a partner that does not work and wants to stay home all the time, or if your partner is out to destroy your career or take away the love that you feel, you need to get away form them.
Obsession
Obsession is a bad thing and if you are with someone that is obsessing over you, you need to think twice. Do not be with someone that is always checking up on you and does not trust you.
Jealousy
Karmic relationships should not be filled with jealous rage. If your partner is controlling, you or is going through jealous rage then you need to figure out if this relationship is going to work out or if you need to move forward.
Knowing
We know when we are in a relationship that is not going to work out. Some people are bad people and are not there to bring you joy or peace. Some people want to play games and others are just out to control someone.
If you find out that you are in any of these kinds of relationships, you will find that you are not a winner in this situation, and you need to move on with your life.
Karmic attachments can be sketchy, but they should never be abusive or dangerous. If you are in these situations, you need to move away quickly and find a peaceful relationship that is safe.